Taking Time Out with Dear Old Dad

I consider myself really lucky that I have a wonderful relationship with my Dad. We’ve gotten over those angsty teenage years and emerged great friends. Anchoring our bond through it all is our shared loved of music.

I thought about this a couple of weekends ago when I headed to the Hunter Valley for the inaugural Jazz in the Vines festival. We listened to the oldie songs on Newcastle community station 2NUR on the way up in the car, then shared our love of jazz standards and soul classics during the show. A few hours later we drove home with more music on the car stereo, before spending the evening chatting and gabbing over more tunes.

Dad and I feeding a kangaroo at Oakvale Farm
No matter how many years pass, I'll always be Daddy's girl

In the comfort of my parents’ home, Dad was in his element. He had his shiny new stereo and his record collection, because he swears that vinyl sounds better than a CD ever will. I tended to agree with him as I listened to the likes of Melanie Safka and Linda Ronstadt and Dad gushing over how beautiful and talented these ladies both were. I’ve lost count of the number of times he’s remarked at the cleverness of the lyrics of “Brand New Key,” but I don’t mind agreeing with him every time.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m glad I’ve got my own life now with my own home and a husband. When we see too much of one another, I’m very glad of that. But I also consider myself pretty lucky that I can take a weekend to go home and bond with the old man over some incredible tunes.

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What I Have Learned From Dad

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Dad helping me wrangle a snake at the Australian Reptile ParkWith Father’s Day fast approaching, I figured it was a great to reflect on the things my Dad has taught me over the years. After a few decades on this planet there are have been plenty of tidbits passed down to me, so I figured it’d be easiest to share with you my top fifteen (a top ten was just too hard!).

1. Never trust a person that says trust me. That goes double for good looking men.

2. Richard Clapton is The Godfather, Renee Geyer is the Queen of Soul, and Van Morrison is definitely The Man.

3. Every girl should know how to change a tyre, make spaghetti bolognaise, and drive a manual car.

4. A sense of humour can get you through anything. Never take yourself or the world around you too seriously.

5. The best fishing is done before the sun rises in the morning, and it’s made much more enjoyable with a can of lemonade and a packet of chips.

6. Never pay someone else to do the jobs you can do yourself. (I listened Dad, I just get lazy sometimes!)

7. Songwriting is one of the most important arts in the world. Never listen to a song without paying attention to what the artist is saying.

8. Rugby league is the greatest game in the world.

9. Stand up for your opinions and the things that really matter, but know when it’s smarter to let things go.

10. Green stuff really does make a dish taste better.

11. Old is a state of mind. Keep eating out, seeing live bands, meeting up with friends, and discovering the world, no matter what your years.

12. Cheap booze just isn’t worth it. Buy a good bottle of wine or quality beer and savour it.

13. Education is vital. School might seem like it’s dragging on for an eternity, but those qualifications will ensure life is better down the track.

14. Technology might keep moving on, but there’s nothing quite like a vinyl record.

15. No matter what you do and where you are, family will always be there.

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Happy Father’s Day

Happy Father’s Day!

I’ll bet there are plenty of readers out there who consider this to be another of those Hallmark holidays, but I don’t mind a day that gives me an excuse to catch up with my Dad. We touch base regularly, but those days where the entire family gets together are a bit rarer.

I’m lucky to enjoy a really good relationship with my Dad. Music has always been a bit of an anchor to that. I remember spending many evenings with him while Mum was working night duty. He’d take out his collection of vinyl and I’d know to stay very still as the tracks played. He’d explain to me the history of the band and the meaning of the lyrics. If not for those special nights I might not be the rabid music fan I am today.

So I figured today was the perfect day to post a few Aussie music videos that remind me of my Dad. Hopefully you’ll enjoy them too!

My Dad loves a bit of Chisel. “Flame Trees” is his favourite Cold Chisel track, and quite rightly so. “Khe Sahn” might be the popular choice, but the lyrics of this song and Jimmy’s impassioned delivery are exceptional.

My Dad is also the reason I’m such a big Richard Clapton. It’s not the coolest thing to admit, but if you saw this guy live you’d get it. I’ve picked “Best Years of Our Lives” not because it’s the best Richard Clapton song (although that’s arguably the case), but because its message is something Dad’s always instilled in me.

I remember when “Holy Grail” was released and it wowed my Dad. He’s generally a bit slower to embrace brand new music, but he loved this Hunters & Collectors track. If it came on the radio, he’d turn it up loud and sing along.

An oldie now, but an important one to include. Country Radio were playing at Newcastle nightspot The Savoy on the night that my Dad met my mother. This song “Gypsy Queen” was their big hit, so perhaps if it didn’t exist and drag them both out that night, I wouldn’t be here!

And no post about the relationship between a father and daughter would be complete without Axiom’s “Little Ray of Sunshine.”

Happy Father’s Day Dad! I love you lots!!